Gone Baby Gone

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Ethical dilemmas only really occur when values that are held equally dearly come into conflict with each other and cannot be resolved by protecting both. For example, a mother is pregnant but continuing with the pregnancy threatens the life of the mother. If you believe that both mother and baby are equally human and have an equal right to life, what do you do? Do you terminate the pregnancy or allow the mother to die to save the child’s life? It is impossible to choose without having to undermine at least one equally held value. Ben Affleck, in his movie Gone Baby Gone, powerfully confronts us with a series of such ethical dilemmas.

When four-year-old Amanda McCready goes missing, Patrick Kenzie (Casey Affleck) and Angie Gennaro (Michelle Monaghan), two private investigators, are called in to help by the child’s aunt (Amy Madigan). She is worried that the police are not going to be successful in finding her niece and Patrick and Angie are experienced in finding missing people -- at least, those who choose to go missing -- not those who are kidnapped. As they investigate, they uncover a tangled web of crime that brings them into danger and challenges their morality to its core.

Gone Baby Gone is an intelligent crime/thriller that is, at times, difficult to watch. There is pervasive coarse language, high-level violence, and drug use. But somehow, all these fit with the context of the story. These are real people dealing with real moral dilemmas. Ben Affleck should be congratulated on producing a movie that is driven by these moral conundrums rather than special effects. Gone Baby Gone also ranges over other issues such as the nature of parenting and the role of child care services. Affleck has evoked excellent performances from his actors and the dialogue is tight and powerful.

The power of Gone Baby Gone is evidenced by the conversations that occurred following the cinema showing I attended as people discussed what they would do in the circumstances portrayed. (Note: This film is now available on DVD in the U.S.)

If you think you can handle the language and violence of this movie, then go see it. It will have you thinking for days after. So often, within Christian circles, we discuss moral decisions as if there is no question how we should decide. If that happens, then I would hazard to say that we are not living in the real world where morality is not so black and white. A moral dilemma is just that - a dilemma full of ambiguities. Trying to choose what is right when the choices are significant is never going to be easy. And given that, it is almost impossible to judge the choices of others.

Steve Parker reviews movies and books and comments on things of interest to Christians who are thoughtful about their faith on his blog, Thinking Christian, where this review was first published. He writes from Adelaide, Australia.

Comments

While I haven't seen the movie, I strongly believe in what he said last:

"morality is not so black and white. A moral dilemma is just that - a dilemma full of ambiguities. Trying to choose what is right when the choices are significant is never going to be easy. And given that, it is almost impossible to judge the choices of others."

We should have that etched in our mind and never forget it. This is why Jesus reminded us to never judge others--and as the Indians knew--unless you first walked a mile in her shoes."

I haven't seen this movie yet, but your review made me pop it onto the Netflix queue. You're so right that moral dilemmas are situations with opposing values, both in conflict with each other. We too often teach our kids and others that it's easy to do the right thing, but a real moral conflict wouldn't be a dilemma if there was an easy choice. Often we have to choose not between black and white but shades of gray.

Thanks--looks like a good film with some interesting themes to talk about. I've been meaning to check this one out if only to see how Ben Affleck is as a director.

Thanks for the review Steve. I've read all of Dennis Lehane's books (Gone Baby Gone is one of them and so is Mystic River, also made into a movie) and you're right, they are great stories. Not for when one wants to feel chipper about the world but great for making you think. He actually features the main characters in Gone Baby Gone in several of his books and they are all really good.

At this stage in my life I tend to pass on the intense movies and children being abducted is a definite no-go. However, pre-kids, I would have loved to have seen it and maybe someday I will.

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